Who Are You and What Do You Want?
This choice of how you view yourself is the essence of the
identity statement, the fourth tool in the mental workout.
The identity statement is similar to the performance statement; it is a statement you can use to increase ability and
develop a potent self-image.
As pointed out previously, largely what determines
people’s self-image is the things they continually say to
themselves, and unfortunately, much of our inner dialogue regards what we can’t do rather than what we can
do. Simply put, the individual who steps up to the starting
line with a true belief in his or her ability to do well has a
much greater likelihood of success than those who don’t
have that mind-set.
You can’t outperform or underperform your selfimage for long. The self-image will eventually regulate
behaviors and outcomes to fall within the range of selfexpectation. Essentially, your self-image governs how
successful you will become. If you truly believe in your
capacity to triumph, then you will manage to make it
happen. Conversely, if your self-image is low, you will
unfortunately come up short of your potential no matter
how hard you try.
In 2007, Zach Johnson came out of virtually nowhere
to beat the great Tiger Woods in one of the most memorable Masters Championships in history. The young man
from Iowa took the country by storm with his ferocious
competitiveness on the course. Off the course, Johnson
endeared himself to golf fans with his genuine sense of
humility. In a postvictory interview, he stated, “I’m Zach
Johnson and I’m from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I’m a normal
guy.”1
He also said of himself, “I don’t hit it far, I can’t overpower a course, but I think I am mentally tough.”2
He
asserted, “Competition in general is just in my skin. It’s
always been there. I really don’t care what it is; it can be
the most subtle thing. I want to win.”3
Zach Johnson is not a client of mine, but when I
read this quote of his, it confirmed the importance of self-image. Johnson started the final round of the 2007
Masters Championship two shots out of the lead and one
shot behind Woods. He leaned on his competitive nature,
mental toughness, and true belief in himself to overcome
the odds and surge to a David-conquers-Goliath type of
victory over Woods and the rest of the pack.
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