Always Have a Solution on the Board
Sports are filled with intriguing stories of underdogs beating the odds. Superior talent can often
be deceptive when it is opposed by willpower
and a relentless work ethic. In 1980, a bunch of freshfaced college kids on the United States Olympic hockey
team improbably defeated a Soviet Union team that had
won five of the previous six gold medals. In 1969, a supposedly inferior AFL team called the New York Jets won
the Super Bowl over the NFL’s Baltimore Colts in a game
that forever changed the perception of the two leagues’
talent gap.
More recently, in Super Bowl XLII, the New York
Giants were two-touchdown underdogs to the previously
unbeaten New England Patriots and wound up winning
on a last-minute touchdown drive that won’t soon be for gotten. Back in 1990, Buster Douglas beat 42-to-1 odds
by defeating a peaking Mike Tyson in a boxing match that
wasn’t supposed to get past the second round. In 2007,
Appalachian State stunned a highly ranked Michigan
football team playing at home in a game that was supposed to be a de facto early-season “warm-up” for the
storied Wolverines. And the list goes on (with your geographical location likely to dictate which notable upsets
you remember most).
In all of these instances, a team or athlete shocked
the sporting world by pulling off what was seemingly
impossible. The chances of these underdogs winning
were rated by outsiders as next to zero: showing up
and competing was essentially a formality. What these
winning teams and players consciously or unconsciously
understood was that success isn’t built on worrying about
all the problems a supposedly superior opponent presents. Excellence is achieved through a solution-focused
mind. Simply put, teams like the 1980 U.S. Olympic
hockey team and the 2007 New York Giants keep their
eyes on what they need to do rather than worrying
about how they stack up next to a more “accomplished”
opponent. They allow nothing to waylay them, regardless of any statistical evidence that they have precious
little chance of winning.
We humans are better at seeing problems than we are
at seeing solutions. This itself is a problem, because what
we dwell on expands. When we spend most of our lives
thinking about problems, we heft an unnecessary weight
onto our shoulders. Fortunately, we have the capacity for
change. We are able to overcome our human tendency to
continuously ruminate on problems and actually become
solution focused. The following fictitious story helps illustrate the difference
between a problem-focused mind-set and a solution-focused
mind-set.
A yacht, sailing far offshore in the Atlantic Ocean, was
taking on water and sinking, forcing the passengers onto the
vessel’s two safety boats. For the harried people aboard the
safety boats, the outlook was bleak. They could not spy land
in any direction, and no one on either boat knew which
way to begin paddling. They were undersupplied, cold, and
wet, having only the clothes they wore and a few oars. As
the boats began to drift apart, the passengers of each boat
shared their thoughts as to the best course of action.
One of the safety boats held solution-focused passengers. They decided, based on the location of the sun and
their best guess of their starting point, to face the boat
due west and begin paddling in shifts so that they could
all take turns working and resting.
The second boat, which carried problem-focused
passengers, came to a different conclusion. Each time
someone suggested a possible solution, someone else
argued against the plan, finding reasons for its assured
failure. The problem-focused crew members became convinced that rowing to land was impossible, as they were at
least three hundred miles from the nearest shoreline; they
had no food or water; the safety boats were not built to
withstand the ripping winds and stormy seas of the Atlantic; and they were all soaked to the bone, shivering, and
exhausted. Eventually, they deemed their situation hopeless. They attempted to convey their fears and despair
to the companion safety boat, but to no avail, as it was
already too far away for its passengers to hear their wails.
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